So in the introduction forum I explained that we're getting out. But we have a few complications to work out. First of all my wife and I are both currently disfellowshipped and have been for about a year now. We were both engaged in LoC issues outside our marriage but we have since stopped and have repaired our marriage. Right now we are what you would call "worthy". But through our path to recovery we came to understand that the church is false and does more harm than good so we want out.
We have debated staying in long enough to get re-instated before resigning. I'd guess it would probably be just a couple more months, certainly by the end of the year. But I don't even know why we should bother. I guess we could just stop going but it's more complicated than that. I mean we're already on their radar for obvious reasons. So if we miss more that 2 sundays in a row we're going to attract attention. Plus our kids are entangled in the youth programs and daily early morning seminary.
Can we even resign with an open disciplinary action against us or will that just move them directly to excommunication? Not that it really matters? I don't know.
Once my wife and I started to be honest with each other it was amazing to find out that all this time we were both pretending to be TBM even to each other. How messed up is that?